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Date: Wed Jan 14 2009 - 09:25:01 CST
Read the mysqld man pages about what it does with kill -X signals.
One of them may mean "graceful stop"
If there is one, you'd still have to figure out how to tie that into a re-boot or whatever for updates.
Sounds like a perfectly reasonable feature request if you find nothing at all...
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